Me at 40

Well as many of you know I've just turned 40 on the 2ND of may, they say life begins at 40 and your sex drive is at it's highest, well yes it does begin at 40, as for the second part i think I'll keep that one to myself lol xx

If there was one thing or one word that you could really say makes your day what would it really be? would it be trust love a breath. maybe all of these but the up most important word for myself anyway is LAUGHTER yep simple laughter, with out it yes there is joy and love but with it there's happiness etc..."Laughter is the best medicine... for unseen wounds". Take time to laugh, it is the music of the soul. Take time to think, it is the source of power. Take time to read, it is the fountain of wisdom. Take time to love and be loved.
Isn't there a quote that goes something like live well, love much laugh often? The more you laugh the better you feel..the more you love the more you are loved in return. So keep smiling.


The Final Analysis

People are often unreasonable, self-centred: Forgive them anyway. If you are Honest, People may cheat you, but be Honest anyway. What you spend years to build, someone could destroy overnight. Build anyway. The good you do today, People will often forget tomorrow. Do Good anyway. You see, in the final analysis it is between you and that big thing called conscience ; it never was between you and other people anyway.

Take a deep breath and try to think about something other than what you are worrying about.
If that doesn't work, then just stop thinking altogether.

If your days seem filled with unwanted negative feelings, there is only one cure. When they come, choose them. Don't ask why, don't wonder how, don't fight them and never put yourself down for having them. But most of all never blame someone else for how you feel. If you do, it means you are still fast asleep and your choice is to be a victim.


Let Be

Many of us spend most of our life trying to live someone else's life. We are great fixers, and as we watch others we can hear ourselves attempting to 'sort them out'. We hear it in our conversations with others and with ourselves. It sounds like, "They shouldn't...weren't they awful...did you hear about so and so...in my opinion they should". In these moments we waste time trying to write the script of others and forget to write our own. We have no right to write another script and any attempt to do so is futile, frustrating and doomed to failure. So let be, and taste the freedom from the subtle tensions and anxieties about others by letting them write their own script. Don't miss your life by trying to live someone else's.



Miss Everything

You can only be in one place at any moment in time. If you feel you are missing out on something then you are. But it's not the party, or being with another person that you're missing, it's your own life. As long as you are thinking of where you could be, you are marking yourself absent from where you are now. Which means you are nowhere. Many people spend their entire life in 'nowhere'. Not a wise choice!